Golden Rule

Golden Rule

“Well-behaved women seldom make history."

Team Golden

I must be close because I see sacrifices being made beyond my control. Give yourself some compassion. We all make mistakes. There are some things that if we had to do over again, we would do differently. Ask yourself...what did I learn? What's my stretch goal? Where do I go from here? If you can answer these questions...give yourself a break. You Deserve it!

"MY STORY" ACCEPTED AT THE 2012 PASSAIC COUNTY FILM FESTIVAL!

 

"MY STORY" Starring Shyhiem Littlejohn & Chynna Littlejohn is accepted at the 2012 Passaic County Film Festival April 14 @ the Fabian 8 Theater! 

 I am excited to have this film selected again!! Pray we win! =} This is the 1st film I shot with my new Panasonic camera at that time and with my oldest son! We were so excited! I still am! The feedback has been tremendous! I can't wait! 

Thank you to everyone who always show GoldenGirl FilmWorks continued support and encouragement! 

See you at the theater!!!!!

Chynna

Welcome To 2012!!

Hello Loves! 
I hope everyone had a fabulous holiday season! Some of us are back to work..booooo..LMAO!! I guess a week & a half is enough time off!...LOL So hopefully those who received their copy of "Angela's Glory" enjoyed the short film with the extras I added! We truly enjoyed making it! Please feel free to leave a comment on the official FB movie page!
Thank you for allowing me to share! God is great & it's a blessing & an overwhelming enjoyment that I get to share my gifts with you! 
This year I have something special planned for all of you so stay tuned! Your support, love, & encouragement over the years has been more than a blessing! I truly from my heart thank each & every one of you! I'm excited about our 2012 journey. I have some new ideas that I can not wait to share with you! I hope you are excited as I am!  You will be!! I promise! There's so much about to happen with GGFWS I feel like I'm going to bust wide open & spill it all out! LOL! Anyway. I'm glad you're all safe & let's us all have a prosperous new year!! Also please check out the new website & let me know what you think! Just a little change! Enjoy!
Talk to you soon!


Chynna
If you're horizon isn't GOLDEN, you're going the wrong way!


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GOLDEN RULE: LIFE

"Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another steppingstone to greatness." (Oprah Winfrey) A woman is but the product of her thoughts; what she thinks, she becomes. A Queen never settles for less. Are you proud of yourself? Do you strive for excellence? Do you present greatness & pride?....You Should! Keep Living Your Life Like It's GOLDEN!

GOLDEN RULE: PHILOSOPHY

 #GOLDEN: By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest. Be mindful of the company you keep & how you present yourself to the world! Reflect only GREATNESS! Love Your Life & Yourselves & Have A Golden Day Lovers!!

GOLDEN RULE: TRUST

I know I've never been great at trusting ANYONE! I wasn't raised that way but I've always tried to give people the benefit of the doubt. Some have proven untrustworthy and were kicked to the curb! IMMEDIATELY!

And others have proven themselves through the test of time. I don't know if I'll ever completely trust anyone. It is not an easy thing to let go! I was raised to keep a close on eye on people, never trust them, and if you want something done..you better do it yourself. I was taught how to scream & yell and use force if necessary to prove myself the bigger person. I've been taught people do not give a shit about you. I've been taught people will lie & deceive you! Will look you dead in the eyes with a serious face lie!! I can't stand that shit! I hate for someone to be on there soapbox made of shit & turn around & be the very one full of shit! (just being real)!

And to some extent this may be true! I..being so optimistic believes that it's not true for EVERYONE! & they are not the masses!!!

I am learning in small dosages that somethings I have NO control over. But I can control my life and how I deal with things & people. The only force I will use is the force of Luke Skywalker and use it to propel me into success!!..LOL!! My energy will be used for purpose. God has given me a gift! It has purpose..I have a mission & must reach it & stay on the path of my inner peace and well being!

Whatever is meant to happen will happen ...that's God's control. How I react to it is my control. I choose to continue to trust me...and keep moving towards my dream. I want to make feature films..I want to be in theaters...i want to reach many people & have a positive effect...I want to make history..and I will and I am...
Life has lessons...I'm just learning to take notes, good notes!!..LOL!! With highlights!! LMAO!!


With that said..& that's a lot............never lose sight of your purpose & your happiness!
Everything is just extra!!!!!!!

Love Your Life & Yourselves & Have A Golden Day Lovers!!!

FORGIVENESS...FAMILY...LOVE!!

At the end of the day, a loving family should find everything forgivable. In some families, please is described as the magic word.  In our house, however, it was sorry. Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.

This past weekend I met my cousin Juanita & my future brother-in-law Miguel, for the 1st time and saw my sister Andrea, whom I haven't seen in years because of a ridiculous lie. 

I've been taught to be angry, to yell, to scream, to get revenge, to hate, and so many other bad habits. Since my 30's...I'm learning to undo those bad habits & create positive ones in my life. My home life was unstable. But outside of that life made since. Outside of my home & family..I had friends & strangers that I could be more positive. People that I could inspire that would balance all of the negativity surrounding me. I could be that motivation that would spark the ripple of joy in someone's still river. It was so easy. But yet I couldn't be that ripple in my own river!?

I was so nervous before I got to my brother Mark's house because I wasn't sure of the outcome. I prepared for the worst? I would never tell anyone to do that though? I'd tell them to stop thinking like that & stay optimistic..prepare for the best outcome. Yet I couldn't find find the optimism in me? Thank God for Marshall! The love of my life. He is truly my angel! He is my optimism. He is my positive reinforcement. He is my inspiration. My spark of motivation. He YELLED me the whole time!..LOL!! He was the kick in the pants that I needed to cut the BS out!!  Poor Bridgette my sweet angel..tried!!  =) Bless her heart! =)

Now I hate to tell anyone they're right because I'm ALWAYS right but lately I've been very comfortable with not always having to be right & to respect other views. I trust his judgment & he was right! There was so much love & forgiveness & healing in that room that day that even as stubborn as I am...I immediately was at PEACE! I was healed. There was love & I enjoyed in it! I soaked it up with my very being! I realized that I am not always right & I need to learn to be more humble to forgive & to move ON! There is no progress no purpose with out forgiveness. The tears in my brother's & sister's eyes melted my cold hurt heart ...WARM. 

Thank God for pictures! lol..As I look at those pics from that day..my heart melts each time & I just want to hug & kiss my brother's & sisters & tell them..we are going t be just fine! I want to reflect the love that they give me! 

Marshall taught me that! Even in the storm just hold me & tell me everything will be just fine!! Do you see why I love that man so much??? Isn't he just delicious?! LOL!! He has just been such a wonderful blessing in my life. Without him, I don't think I would have gotten here!! 

I recently called Kendahl & Vern too. Sometime ago we got into a disagreement & instead of me working through it..I just let it go. Walking away was always so much more easier for me to do. But I missed them terrible & I would think about them often. & I realized "Fool your ego, stubbornness, and pride is going to cause you to end up alone & bitter & hurt!" 

People that mean the most to you are going to hurt you at times because THEY LOVE YOU & are trying to protect you! If they didn't love you, they wouldn't say anything! I get it now! 

Communication, humbleness, forgiveness, love, and an open heart..as well as an apology or two..HEALS THE PAIN! So I called them and apologized!  And soon with Kinu..we will be traveling..to see them! I can't wait! I just want to give them both a big hug & say I love you!

2011 has started off beautifully..praying the rest of this year will be the same if not better...& I'm positive it will be!! Growth..Possibility...Progress...Purpose!!!

 It's such a wonderful feeling. So in our household...LOVE is taught! Laughter is taught! HEALING is taught!! FAMILY is taught to stick together through good & bad times!!! Reassure each others safety & know that EVERYTHING WILL BE JUST FINE! WE ARE GOING TO MAKE IT! All Marshall ever wanted was to be happy..all I ever wanted was a family... HAPPY FAMILY..isn't that a great combination for life!

I know I'm not perfect. I know have many faults but I recognized them & I am correcting them & learning from them! I am seeing the life I've always wanted & I am grateful! I have a HUGE family & we love each other....& I'm grateful!!!! & I'm growing!! =)

Shout Outs to my Loves...

Marsh

Mark

Bri

Fe 

Dre

Nita

Miguel 

Kendahl

Vern

To my other family members..I love You & we will be just fine! I apologize for any pain I've caused you...and I forgive you for any pain you've caused me!!! 

Everyone else.....See You Soon!

Life..it's not easy...but it works!..LOL!!

Love Your Life, Your Family, & Yourselves....& Have A Golden Day Lovers!!!!!