Team Golden

I must be close because I see sacrifices being made beyond my control. Give yourself some compassion. We all make mistakes. There are some things that if we had to do over again, we would do differently. Ask yourself...what did I learn? What's my stretch goal? Where do I go from here? If you can answer these questions...give yourself a break. You Deserve it!

Welcome Back Kotter!!!!!!!! =)

Good afternoon! Back @ work & I still feel a little off. That's great compared to when I was WAAAAAAAAAYYYY off!! LMAO!! Lil jokey joke there. 

"Beliefs have the power to create and the power to destroy. Human beings have the awesome ability to take any experience of their lives and create a meaning that disempowers them or one that can literally save their lives. (TR)". 

I'm believing in my power to be FABULOUSLY GOLDEN! Don't let anyone take your shine & bring you down. Get back up..lift your head to the sky & declare your destiny! Some haters can see your success before you do & will try to stop you. If you're looking up at the sun & the stars you won't notice them below you!!!!!! =) Life is to short for the bullshit! Be yourself, make your dreams come true, and keep it moving. What's meant for you is meant for you and that's it. If people have hidden agenda's the truth will always come out sooner than later. But that should not stop you from your purpose. Don't even let it delay you! Stay focused, stay true to yourself, and be happy! Also karma has a way of showing up and showing out! You don't worry about it...worry about yourself! Progress...Purpose..Possibility!

 

HAVE A GOLDEN DAY LOVERS!!!!!!!!

GOLDEN RULE...

“When work, commitment, and pleasure all become one and you reach that deep well where passion lives, nothing is impossible. There are three ingredients in the good life: learning, earning and yearning.” Love Your Life & Yourselves & Have A GOLDEN Day Lovers!!!!!!!!

Quotes To Live By...

Life's problems wouldn't be called "hurdles" if there wasn't a way to get over them. Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending. If you want to make your dreams come true, the first thing you have to do is wake up.

Quotes To Live By....

There is nothing more beautiful than believing in yourself. It took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else's eyes. It's time to start living the life you've imagined. Love Your Life & Yourselves & Have A GOLDEN Day Lovers!!!!

GOLDEN RULE: LIFE

VENI, VIDI, VICI...I CAME, I SAW, I CONQUERED! #GOLDEN LOVE YOUR LIFE & YOURSELVES & HAVE A GOLDEN DAY LOVERS!

QUOTES TO LIVE BY....

He who knows others is wise. He who know himself is enlightened. If you aren't good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you'll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren't even giving to yourself. Love Your Lives & Yourselves & Have A Golden Day Lovers!!

GOLDEN RULE: LIFE

The best thing to give to your enemy is forgiveness; to an opponent, tolerance; to a friend, your heart; to your child, a good example; to a father, deference; to your mother, conduct that will make her proud of you; to yourself, respect; to all men, charity.
Benjamin Franklin

GOLDEN RULE: LIFE

"Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another steppingstone to greatness." (Oprah Winfrey) A woman is but the product of her thoughts; what she thinks, she becomes. A Queen never settles for less. Are you proud of yourself? Do you strive for excellence? Do you present greatness & pride?....You Should! Keep Living Your Life Like It's GOLDEN!

GOLDEN RULE: PHILOSOPHY

 #GOLDEN: By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest. Be mindful of the company you keep & how you present yourself to the world! Reflect only GREATNESS! Love Your Life & Yourselves & Have A Golden Day Lovers!!

GOLDEN RULE: TRUST

I know I've never been great at trusting ANYONE! I wasn't raised that way but I've always tried to give people the benefit of the doubt. Some have proven untrustworthy and were kicked to the curb! IMMEDIATELY!

And others have proven themselves through the test of time. I don't know if I'll ever completely trust anyone. It is not an easy thing to let go! I was raised to keep a close on eye on people, never trust them, and if you want something done..you better do it yourself. I was taught how to scream & yell and use force if necessary to prove myself the bigger person. I've been taught people do not give a shit about you. I've been taught people will lie & deceive you! Will look you dead in the eyes with a serious face lie!! I can't stand that shit! I hate for someone to be on there soapbox made of shit & turn around & be the very one full of shit! (just being real)!

And to some extent this may be true! I..being so optimistic believes that it's not true for EVERYONE! & they are not the masses!!!

I am learning in small dosages that somethings I have NO control over. But I can control my life and how I deal with things & people. The only force I will use is the force of Luke Skywalker and use it to propel me into success!!..LOL!! My energy will be used for purpose. God has given me a gift! It has purpose..I have a mission & must reach it & stay on the path of my inner peace and well being!

Whatever is meant to happen will happen ...that's God's control. How I react to it is my control. I choose to continue to trust me...and keep moving towards my dream. I want to make feature films..I want to be in theaters...i want to reach many people & have a positive effect...I want to make history..and I will and I am...
Life has lessons...I'm just learning to take notes, good notes!!..LOL!! With highlights!! LMAO!!


With that said..& that's a lot............never lose sight of your purpose & your happiness!
Everything is just extra!!!!!!!

Love Your Life & Yourselves & Have A Golden Day Lovers!!!

Quotes To Live By...

All my life I had been looking for something, and everywhere I turned someone tried to tell me what it was.  I accepted their answers too, though they were often in contradiction and even self-contradictory.  I was naïve.  I was looking for myself and asking everyone except myself questions which I, and only I, could answer.  It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone else appears to have been born with:  that I am nobody but myself.  ~Ralph Ellison, "Battle Royal"

Quotes To Live By...

 

“A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.”  -Hugh Downs

Can't Be A Fool...Ever Again!!!

 Never forget who you are! Don't get so lost in someone else that you don't recognize yourself in the mirror! Before that "love" or significant other..were you happy? Did you have dreams and goals? Are you trying to achieve them? 

I have learned & I am still learning that (my favorite line) "I never did mind the little things!" People only do what you allow them to do! If I don't like something I say it! If I do I do. I am a very vocal person when I want to be. Some people can't handle that & that's fine don't..do you but don't criticize me for being me! I'm doing me! Like Luther says (God rest his soul) I just want to be a fool..never again! Can't be the fool! I know I am a great person. I have my faults but I'm human who doesn't? No one is perfect but I am learning to be a better woman, mother, business woman, sister, & friend! 

So with that said in the words of Kanyeezy..

"I’m living the future so the presence is my past...My presence is a present kiss my ass"

lol....that's a lot said..Chynna is getting back to Chynna..but then again have I never been?..

I refuse to play the fool for anyone or let anyone think they have the upper hand! God controls my life not man or any man. I love & I love hard but I will not be a fool..ever again!

Never take advantage of a good person...you just may lose that person to someone else who appreciates them more!! =)

Happiness is a conscious choice, not an automatic response. All that I am, I am because either way, things are a lot better - either a lot better than they were or a lot better than they're going to be. Never violate the sacredness of your individual self-respect. Love Your Life & Yourselves...& Have A Golden Day Lovers!!!!

Quotes To Live By....

 

We all grow up with the weight of history on us. We were a strange little band of characters loving, laughing, defending, & trying to figure out the common thread that bound us all together. In some families, please is described as the magic word. In ours, however, it was *sorry*. You don't choose your family. They are God's gift to you, as you are to them. 

Love Your Life & Your FAMILY..& Have a Golden Day Lovers!!

Quotes To Live By....

Genius, by its very intensity, decrees a special path of fire for its vivid power. Talent is that which is in a man's power; genius is that in whose power a man is!! Love Your Life & Yourselves...& Have a GOLDEN weekend Lovers!!!!!

Quotes To Live By.....

It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not. You were born an original. Don't die a copy. Don't be the person who makes the same resolutions every year. Be the person with the list for life..& scratches them off 1 by 1 as you achieve them!! Love Your Life & Yourselves & Have A Golden Day Lovers!!!!!

Quotes To Live By....

Very often a change of self is needed more than a change of scene. We all live under the same sky, but we don't all have the same horizon. Love Yourselves, Love Your Life, .....& Make It Golden Lovers!

Quotes To Live By....

“Permanence, perseverance and persistence in spite of all obstacles, discouragement, and impossibilities: It is this, that in all things distinguishes the strong soul from the weak” ~ Thomas Carlyle~

Quotes To Live By....

“Faith means living with uncertainty – feeling your way through life, letting your heart guide you like a lantern in the dark”           -Dan Millman-